What questions to ask on an online dating site

November 15, 2010 - Online Dating
What questions to ask on an online dating site
When talking to people online there are countless possibilities of things to ask.  To stand out from the crowd you want to be interesting and fun.  Get away form the normal boring questions that every other guys going to ask, or, at a minimum ask those questions in a fun and unique way.  By far these are a list of questions I have been asked the most frequently.

For me all these questions stink of… a)you can’t think of anything interesting to say, or, b) you haven’t got anything interesting to talk about.  My philosophy towards on-line dating is that I know I’m a catch, you seem like you could be a catch, lets get to know each other and find out.  Asking someone how they are is pretty dull and low risk.  For me it says your either to lazy to write to me properly, or, you don’t know what to ask.  Ok so I make it sound simple enough, then what should you ask ? Finding questions to ask is pretty straight forward.  I did a very quick search on the most popular threads from a very well recognised girls magazine website.  Anything that was popular I wrote down. After I had a list I sent different emails out to calibrate what worked and what didn’t.  From a quick 2 minute scan I’ve just done I found :

These are just some example questions, use them if you want but the main point of my post was to shows you a process to find good questions that you like.  All the above are at least original and will get you into a conversation that’s going to flow a lot easier than a simple ‘Hey!’

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