How You Can Learn To Be A Master At Meeting Women

July 16, 2012 - Tips To Meet Women
How You Can Learn To Be A Master At Meeting Women

I’ve been browsing through a book called ‘Outliers: The Story of Success’.  The book is a research project on success.  The big revelation that gets quoted is that it takes 10,000 or more of study to become an expert in any one area.  Most people won’t commit to that amount of time and to study and practice and as a result will contently be surprised and frustrated that they don’t make any progress.  If you commit to spending just 10 hours of learning and 10 hours of practice you will be ahead of 80% of the population in that area.  Just spend a minute of two right now picturing how your life could be changed if you committed to spend 100 or 200 hours deliberatly prating how to get better dating success.  You may not become the worlds best ‘playa’ in that time but with the right information and conviction you will have gained a lot more confidence and world knowledge.  Another thing I talk about a lot is success breads success.  After 100 hours of practice you may get 10% success.  The next 100 hours you put in you’re likely to get 20% or more.  The more you practice the better you will get.

If you have committed to spend 100, 1000 or even 10,000 hours learning you still have a few more hurdles in your way:
  1. Albert Einstein once said ‘Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.’.  Imagine spending 10,000 hours practicing the wrong thing.  You will make some progress but nowhere as near as much if you had the right information.  Which is why you’re first goal should be to find the best sources of information available to you.
  2. How do you know if your information is the ‘right’ information… track it.  If you send 10 emails on an online dating site and get no results..  it’s time to change you’re approach.
  3. Applying.  Sitting at home reading isn’t going to get you anywhere.  After a max of 10 hours of learning.. go out and apply that knowledge for 10 hours.
Today is your time to get over you’re those nagging doubts and fears that have been preventing you from doing anything, learn how to meet and approach women by downloading my toolkit and picking the right information, go out and apply you’re new knowledge, practive for long enough and you will find that right person to develop a fulfilling relationship.  Imagine how could your life be changed if you spent 100 hours committing to practicing now.  The only person stopping you getting this success… is you.

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