Enriching your identity

May 30, 2012 - Tips To Meet Women
Enriching your identity

One of the things that I try to talk to you guys a lot about is the simple steps to help you learn a new skill.  One of the other major factors is having a kick-ass personality.  None of the any book will teach you will be as effective if you have the identity of a loser. You’ll always communicate low value.

When I was reviewing Net 2 Bed by Grant Adams.  This guy has written for the president, he’s a screen writer he sounds cool, or, take Neil Strauss of the Game he’s interviewed people like Britney Spears, Jenna Jameson.  Compare this to your life.  If you don’t have a kick ass life no matter how much ‘game’ you learn you’re always going to be limited in the long term.  Now you don’t have to be famous etc.. but just having a cool identity will make all the other bits of the puzzle fit together much more effectively.  You’ll have cooler stories, more confidence, and become more naturally attractive.

Reading a few blog posts or book on pick-up will give you the information you need bit it won’t make you cool.  You need to spend time learning what you like.  At this stage I guess some of you will be coming up with excuses like.. but I work to hard, I don’t have time, i don’t know what I want to do.  Well here’s my challenge to you.  In the next month find 3 things you definitely know you don’t want to do.  Try something just to prove you don’t like it.  After a few months of trying thing you don’t like I bet you will have a few cool stories to tell women, you will know yourself a lot better, you will have pushed you’re own boundaries further and gained more confidence…  in the process you might just get lucky and find that one thing you love..  below are some ‘self help’ style questions that may help you on you’re way :

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